The 4 Dimensions of Meaningful Work.
Struggling to find meaning in your work? Well, so did I.
(Originally posted on kayatoastforthesoul.com)
I absolutely hated my last job.
Despite this, I stuck around for nearly three entire years. That was a significant amount of my life gone to waste.
Why did I stick around so long? Well, one of my readers I chat with on email shared the term "Golden Handcuffs". That's exactly what it was.
I'll be honest, the pay was pretty darn good and so were the benefits. We had great insurance and medical coverage, and more annual leave than I could count with my two hands and feet.
We even got bonus payouts that came round March every year. These ranged from three months and upwards. Yet, that only served to keep me even more locked in.
Each time I wanted to quit, I was blocked by the "rational" belief that I should at least wait till March came around. It seemed like the smart thing to do, right?
Not really, because the most rational thing I could have really done was to quit much, much earlier, and preserve the happiness of myself and my family.
There were many times in the course of the three years I contemplated quitting. Yet, beyond the fixation of waiting for my bonus, the over-arching mentality that stopped me in my tracks was:
"Who am I to complain? Why don't I just