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Hi, I'm Xue Wei.

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I’m Xue Wei, a Counsellor in Training at IASH.SG.
 

Hello and Welcome!

Hello, and a warm welcome to you. I’m so glad you’re here! 🌻

Life is rarely a straight line, and sometimes we just need a safe harbour to pause, breathe, and make sense of it all. I believe that within every challenge lies the seed of growth, and that your experiences deserve to be held with care. My hope is to co-create a gentle, non-judgemental space where you feel truly heard, supported, and empowered to navigate whatever season you are currently in. 🙂

Why Speak to Me?

Because I have walked the path of uncertainty, too. 

Counselling has supported me through different seasons of life, but my path here was truly defined when my life felt like it burned to the ground.

When my long-term relationship ended unexpectedly, I found myself having to rebuild an entirely new life from zero. I left that chapter with no job, not much savings, the loss of my home, and a heavy heart. It wasn’t easy, and it wasn’t immediate.

It took time, it took tears. But through that process, I learned that beauty can be made out of ashes. You can rebuild. You can reclaim. You can renew.

I know how much courage it takes to take that first step. It definitely felt scary for me! But don't stop there — you have done well even in reaching here and reading this. I will be here for you, as long as you are willing to move forward.

Remember that, "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." (A.A. Milne)

How We Will Work Together

Writing Your Tale
This is your precious story; we will gently explore its pages together, allowing you to clearly see where you've been and empowering you to write the hopeful next chapter that you choose.

A Collaborative Approach
I use an integrative counselling approach built entirely on true partnership. While I draw thoughtfully from effective methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), I deeply respect that your journey is uniquely yours. Together, we will tenderly craft a bespoke approach that feels authentic and deeply supportive of your personal path.

Finding Calm & Tranquility
Feeling scattered or overwhelmed? If your thoughts are feeling fussy or your mind is racing, we can explore powerful, gentle calming techniques. We will work to nurture a beautiful garden of inner tranquility inside of you through practical, centering methods that you can rely on.

You Are in the Driver's Seat
Ultimately, the goal is for you to discover the direction that truly resonates with your heart; to confidently own that small but deeply significant step toward the beautiful next phase of your life. I am simply here as your supportive co-pilot, helping you read the map while you confidently hold the steering wheel.

My experience includes thoughtfully supporting clients through a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, relational challenges, body image struggles, life transitions, workplace challenges, and grief.

A Little About Me
Passionate about food, travel, and meaningful connections, I am constantly on a journey of self-discovery and growth! I believe the little things in life bring the most joy — whether it’s enjoying a good meal, exploring new cultures, going for nature walks, or sharing lighthearted moments with loved ones.

I enjoy seeing the world with a sense of wonder and find happiness in life’s simple pleasures. I am just a fellow traveller in life, learning and growing just like you, and it would be a privilege to walk alongside you on your journey.

I am just a fellow traveller in life, learning and growing just like you, and it would be a privilege to walk alongside you on your journey! ☀️

 

Qualifications & Logistics

Qualifications

  • Master of Counselling – Flinders University, Australia (In Progress)

  • Graduate Diploma in Counselling – Flinders University, Australia

  • Graduate Certificate in Counselling – Flinders University, Australia

Languages Spoken

  • English

  • Chinese

Availability 

  • Weekdays: 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM

If these timings do not work for you, please feel free to reach out, and we can try to work something out :)

Fill in the sign-up form to book a session with me :)

For other enquiries:

WhatsApp: +65 8780 1095
Email: itallstartshearsg@gmail.com

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